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What is Convergence?

Convergence is an annual international conference and social gathering of gay men of size and their admirers. This event serves a particular community, also commonly known as Chubs and Chasers; a vibrant sub-culture of the gay community at large.

Convergence has been a part of our community for 36 years and has been held annually in different cities around the United States on the US Holiday of Labor Day Weekend. Since the first Convergence, 36 years ago, the event has grown, at times, rising above 600 attendees representing over 35 different countries. Convergence allows members of our community to enjoy themselves openly, without judgment and affords an opportunity to make new friends and relationships as well as maintain those already established.

In short; Convergence is primarily a social event to meet other people in our community and empower you as an individual. It is packed with social activities, excursions, and parties.

Who is running the event?

Convergence is organized by the Big Gay Men's Organization (BGMO), a non-profit organization with the mission of promoting the empowerment of big gay men and the men that admirer them.

Convergence 37 is being hosted and organized by Conference Committee of Big Gay Mens Organization (BGMO).

When and where does Convergence take place?

Convergence always takes place on the U.S. Holiday of Labor Day Weekend. The 2019 event will be held in San Diego, California (United States).

I am single. Should I go?

Yes! Convergence is a great event if you are single. Whether you are a chub, bear or chaser, there are many other singles who attend our events.

Convergence is a great way to meet someone. If you ever felt out of place in typical social events, because of your size, or because of your attraction to big men this is the event is for you.

I am partnered. Should I go?

Yes! There are always partnered couples at our events. Many actually met at a Convergence and come back to celebrate their anniversary each year. Everyone enjoys all the planned activities, the parties and the opportunities to socialize and meet new friends and reconnect with old ones.

Remember, Convergence is what you make of it. So it can be a great place to meet friends, participate in fun activities and enjoy a good time with other like-minded folks.

What is the host hotel?

Marriott Mission Valley has been selected for this event.

Ideally located in Mission Valley, we're the ideal gateway to experience the best of San Diego. Enjoy easy access to San Diego State University, SDCCU Stadium (formerly Qualcomm), Old Town, or hop on the Rio Vista Trolley and explore Mission Bay, SeaWorld, and Downtown San Diego including PETCO and Gaslamp District. Enjoy a host of amenities and services, from views and casual dining at DEN to our fully equipped fitness center and outdoor pool with a waterfall. Well-appointed guest rooms and spacious suites offer 55" SMART TV's, high-speed Internet and balconies and are perfect for groups visiting San Diego. You will appreciate our Mission Valley hotel's unmatched charm and sophistication.

We also have negotiated special discounted pricing starting at only $159 a night (Plus taxes and fees).

What is the promotional rate for Convergence?

The special event rate for a room at the Marriott Mission Valley starts at $159 per night for all nights of the event. This rate does not include taxes or fees.

Room Block Bonuses

When you book your room, you will also get with it, 10% off all food and beverages purchased in the hotel restaurant. You will also get free Wifi in your room, and discounted parking if needed, at $15.00 per day and DOUBLE MARRIOTT REWARDS POINTS!

Early Departure Fee

If you check out of your room prior to your reserved checkout date, the Hotel will add an early checkout fee to your account.

Reservation and Cancellation

All attendees reservations must be accompanied by a first night room deposit, or guaranteed with a major credit card. Hotel will not hold any reservations unless secured by one of the above methods. A cancellation less then 72 hours prior to arrival will result in a charge equal to one night's room and tax.

How do I register?

The quickest and most convenient way is to register online with a credit or debit card. But you can also register by postal mail using the Mail form.

What forms of payment do you accept?

We accept American Express, Visa, MasterCard, or Discover credit or debit cards. We also accept personal checks or bank checks by postal mail. Cash will NOT be accepted as a form of payment at the door once the event starts. Please note that all prices related to the event, and shown here on this site, are in US dollars (USD).

International credit cards can be used, and will be charged for the USD amounts shown on the site. Your card-issuing bank will convert the amounts to your local currency at the bank's daily exchange rate for the transaction. International orders placed by postal mail must include a bank check in US dollar funds.

What are the excursions about?

Excursions are extra activities that can be purchased to get the most out of your Convergence experience. At this event, we have a selection of great excursions you can participate in. Please see the Excursions page for a list and more information.

Please note that some event packages already INCLUDE some excursions. Be sure to review your event package details and what it includes. There is time allowed in the schedule for you to explore the many things San Deigo has to offer.

How do I purchase excursions?

You can purchase new excursions or additional tickets from us, once you are registered for the event.

Some excursions have very limited capacity and are expected to sell out, so book early if you are interested.

To purchase an excursion, you must first be registered for the event with the purchase of an event package.